ALL YOU NEED IS ONE GREAT DATE...

You get a match, you talk for a few days over chat, then you go for a coffee, ask personal questions, get to know each other from family, background, present, future.

Even though you're an introvert, you know what you say, you know exactly what to do

Conversation flows easily; you discuss family, your backgrounds, what you want in life. It all lines up, it’s all a match. What she wants, what you want. Of course, your opinions sometimes differ, but that only adds to the experience - talking with someone who agrees AND disagrees with you, and wants to talk and discuss more, hearing every angle of what you have to say. 

After your first date, you think, "Wow, it was awesome." You're already excited about your next date. She's very intelligent. She's beautiful. You had great conversation. You have so many things in common. You even shared some laughs together, while engaging in meaningful banter. These are the logical reasons you want to see her again, but also the irrational ones - you like the way she smells.

The vibes are matching and you can think about going further and spending more time with this woman. There's an interesting discussion, then a second date after 2-3 days.

You feel the magic in the air. You’re having amazing food. It’s an amazing experience. 

She's smart; she's concentrated on her career, but also on developing herself. She's passionate about travel, just like you are. And she doesn't have a "list" in her hand. She's not looking for this guy who's slim, fair, muscular; she, too, cares about a real connection.

She’s so into you, she can’t wait to kiss you. You’re not even thinking about when to make the next move. Instead, your mind has entered that easy relaxed state where you're just enjoying yourself.  You have an amazing connection, you want to share your thoughts with her, you want discuss things with her, you feel joy around her. 

You take her hand, it all feels natural. Her eyes are twinkling. You feel  completely natural around her, and you can tell she’s having a good time. 

You're at the right age to get settled and you can see yourself settling down with someone like her - someone stable who's also passionate about travelling the world, and has a similar background to you - she also has a Master's Degree and is serious about her career.

You want to get to know her further. If you're equally motivated, if the vibe goes well, you can see yourself progressing the relationship with her, becoming a couple, maybe in a few years moving towards marriage, etc.

These are the steps. It's not about waving a magic wand.

It's like yin and yang: when you meet the right person, it should just work.

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"Malaika facelifted my whole dating profile and I have to say that it looks solid! Even in that process, she took soo much initiation, which was definitely something worth noting about. If you are reading this, and if you are thinking of consulting her...GO AHEAD AND DO IT! it’ll be worth it :)"

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"She listens to you : this makes half of your worries fall off your shoulder and fosters trust and positivity in you. She gives hope, and provides alternative workable solutions which are really good. She helps you make it through by walking parallel with you until you achieve it or are satisfied or happy with what you got."

- Prithvi Kaleeswaran

THIS IS FOR YOU IF. . .

Right now, you're not getting any matches, forget about getting a date. Your profile is so bad, your friends laugh at it.

Your past Tinder experience has been horrible. Not to be sexist, but so many of the girls' profiles are nonsense. You might have tried Tinder once but then stopped because you weren't getting matches, it was asking for payments etc. 

You might not know how to write in a way that catches a woman's attention. You don't know what images a girl would see and swipe right. You log on a few times a week, when you're bored, and still there are no new matches. Right now, you're not even getting one match a week. And even if you do get matches, after a while the girl just disappears.

Sometimes you go for a date, then the girl will say she's too busy to meet again, and ends up ghosting you. This has happened several times already.

This is for you if you're definitely open to meeting a few people and then, if the vibe is good, in a few years, settling down. If you don't mind taking it slow. If you don't mind meeting a few people, seeing who you click with best. 

You don't need to jump the gun and say, ""Okay, I found one, let's settle."

Looks is just half of it.

You want them to have something to bring to the table. 

They should have a character, a career, their own goals. They should have an identity of their own. Not just, "Hey I'm a girl, you can date me." She needs to shine at something, have something she's really passionate about

In real life, you tend to get along well with people. You're social, just not a party animal.

The end idea is not to have 1000 matches and meet a thousand people. You don't want to get bombarded. 

The goal is simply to find someone you can connect with.

You know there are serious people everywhere. Overall, you're quite open to new things. For sure, you, too can find someone. But you need a new approach. Right now, whatever approach you're using, it's not working.

And actually, why not? After your career, it is the most important aspect of your life. If you can spend on an iPhone, then why not spend on things that matter the most ?

In the business world, they say: If you can't do it yourself, outsource it. You can try once, twice, if it's still not working, outsource it. It's just a way of getting help. 

"I feel confident now, and have a much better understanding of how to describe myself and what I’m looking for, and that I’m definitely interested in a long-term relationship if things work out and we hit it off well. If you feel stuck because you are not getting any matches and you feel like you have a bad profile, I can definitely recommend Malaika and am very happy with everything she has done for me."

- Hashwanth Shiva

"The most honest review and my personal experience with Malaika. I was looking to boost my profile. She asked genuine questions regarding the kind of relationship in which I want to engage. The way she communicated with me, I would say she gave her best on the call and helped me right now. So I would suggest everyone to register yourself for this call."

- Jay Raval

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By clicking this button, you will be redirected to my calendar to book a Dating Breakthrough Call, where we break down your dating goals and dreams, identify the blocks, and talk about how to get you more matches and better dates with the RIGHT women.

By clicking this button, you will be redirected to my calendar to book a Dating Breakthrough Call, where we break down your dating goals and dreams, identify the blocks, and talk about how to get you more matches and better dates with the RIGHT women.

"[Malaika] has an extremely rational, logical approach to finding love, based on an academic background in psychology and human behaviour. This is not working with a life coach. This is based on data, research, results.

"This is science."

- Justus Kantakoski

"There is no shame in asking for help. If I ask my friends about my profile, they say "No bro, it's all okay." I'm always open to know more and learn more. Not to get stuck and focus on my ego. Malaika is very open and it was great to talk to her.

"How can someone become my girlfriend if we don't match and get to know each other? These are the steps. And what Malaika is doing is very interesting."

- Sailik Mukherjee

Meet Malaika.

She helps ambitious, introverted men who are logical, rational thinkers find a long-term relationship with a smart, intelligent, passionate woman who is highly compatible and deeply committed to them. Her teachings focus on quality, simplicity, and long-term relationships.

To date, Malaika Neri has served over 200 clients, and her free guides and resources have been downloaded over 15,000 times in 164 countries.

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"What I like is that Malaika has such a broad mindset, probably because of experiencing many cultures around the world. The examples she gave were very insightful. They give a perspective to look at relationships that we usually fail to understand."

- Saurav Ganguli

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